Today, I was reading this blog post about coffee shops, and how at one point they were hubs for philosophical conversation and debate.
Which got me thinking (which sometimes gets me into trouble, but that’s the fuel for a whole other post). What if I were just sitting in a coffee shop, minding my own business, when all of a sudden a nearby table erupts into one of those conversations? What would I do?
And THAT got me thinking, and remembering. That DID happen to me, in a way.
Picture the scene: a neighborhood Starbucks, 6:00 am. I’m settled in to catch up on school work and grad work before starting work-work because it’s the only time I can capture (fuel, I suppose, for another blog post).
All of a sudden, a guy comes up to me. “You’re pretty smart, right?”
I don’t know this guy. But I know the guy he’s with, who just happens to be the parent of one of my former kiddos.
I reply, “Umm….well, it depends on the subject, or who’s asking.”
“This guy is trying to tell me that it’s OK to say that he’s ‘more busy,’ and I’m telling him that’s not a thing. He’s ‘busier.’ Right? You’re not supposed to say ‘more busy,’ that’s just not right.”
“Well…I suppose technically you’re right with the grammar, so that’s a thing.” I quickly check my sources before moving on. “You do only use ‘more’ or ‘less’ when the adjective is three or more syllables long.”
“A-HA!” he shouts, with a satisfied smirk to his friend.
He stops smirking. “There’s a but?”
“But. Have you ever heard the word ‘pedantry?'”
“Pedantry. It’s a great word. It’s the word we use for when someone corrects an error that doesn’t need to be corrected.* Did you know what he meant to say with ‘more busy?'”
A moment of silence sweeps across, followed by a moment of thought, then a moment of recognition.
“Pedantry. That’s a new one. I’ll have to use that one.”
And then the guys and I, we launched into conversation together that day. And many days after that, our chats extending towards all sorts of subjects about this world.
Since then a lot has changed. I finished my degree. COVID hit. The shop closed. But still, I find the guys hanging out together on a morning walk. We always say hello, chat, catch up on things.
So, to bring things full circle, I guess I can imagine what it might be like to be in one of those Paris cafés, enjoying a tasty beverage in the midst of philosophical debate and witty repartee. And I think it might not be so bad after all.
* Remember. I’m a teacher of gifted kids. The answer is yes, the talk around “pedantry” comes up probably as often as some of you might imagine. Classroom teachers and parents, you can thank me later.
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